Vaporman87 wrote :
Sorry to learn that, man. I hate that for you.
No way! I'm happy about it. I really needed to do it. The only bad part is only how long it took for me to do it, the stuff I put up with and for how long. Other people saw it going on.
I offered to still be friends, as you do, but in the following months, the more I thought about how she was with me, the more I was glad she said she didn't want to do that.
Vaporman87 wrote :
Even so, it could be the start of a new phase in life that will bring some exciting and wonderful things. -end quote
Exactly. I have reclaimed myself. She really brought me down and put me down. I have been learning to be my own person again. I still have some recovering I hope to do but I've gotten a lot of happiness back that I didn't think I would see again. I'm still lonely, but I was lonely with her for years. At least now I can try to do something about that. Meanwhile I've been socializing with some friends we had together, and met more.